Mae West asked a policemen who was waiting to escort her when she stepped out of the train, “Is that a pistol in your pocket or are you just happy to see me”.
Mae West often had a quip that put the realism into life's situations.
I was often told by my fellow yoginis that Mae West was my counter personality. Yes, I have a way of slipping the truth to you gently. Gently, you say?
Well, this time the signs of the angels are pointing for me to be in a romantic relationship leading to a loving partnership. This is where the nice rubber talk meets the real dirt road. The best way to stay steady on my course is to help my brothers and sisters on the path.
Now, romance is fun and it's real. The meaning of romance: emotional attraction or love affair. You can literally have a romance with anything in your life.
"Emotional" is the clue. You're getting emotional about something or someone, because whatever is out there is reflecting something familiar and nostalgic about you.
What's in you? I'm going to address the women first:
Most of the women on the planet are still looking for their father figure with whom to complete the missing in childhood. Deep inside of you, the little girl still wants to be accepted, acknowleged, and hugged. Subconsciously you're still attracting a "nice" man who after 3 months begins to show his pistol to you. This is the unawakened man or the man who has still to heal his life's wounds. Some wounds are more serious than others. Over time you will see how conscious he is about his past and the choices he is making in the present to be responsible in relationship.
A friend called me for coaching about a man she was in love with. She swore he was transforming. She is an intuitive and a life coach! "He and I have been discussing his issues and doing healings together around those issues. He is a spiritual channeler like myself. He meditates. He really takes responsibility for his well being."
Then came the July 21/22nd eclipse came. Around that date he flipped out, told her he didn't want to speak with her, and wouldn't give an explanation. The next day, she saw his messages on Facebook where he said, "I am happier than I have ever been!" This was confusing for her, for he had given her the impression that he was in deep turmoil.
A clue to me of this man's need to heal, was that he went back to his extremely controlling mother to pacify her, time and time again.
I asked her to reflect on the amount of anguish she was experiencing around the relationship. Was it worth it? Was she ready to face more unexpected explosions of the same nature? Could she imagine living with someone with whom there was sudden
rejection coming from him?
My friend resisted my comments stubbornly. That night she went to an event where the estranged man was present. Fortunately, they were both attending a meditation temple,a place of loving spiritual power. My friend started seeing the healing she needed to do around her father. She realized she was attracting a father-like figure to compensate for the missing piece of true loving recognition.
She called to thank me and apologize for being so stubborn.
I invite you to subscribe to my posts. I will be revealing to you my own journey of romance, every few days. Next,I will be writing to you about a tool to help you stay clear about which relationship truly serves you.
Also watch for the release of my book "The Journey of The Jewel", about my journey following inner guidance in remote areas of southern Spain and the Moroccan desert, often without money.
